Rae McDaniel x Ep. 75

“Play parties are important because they take
sex out of isolation and they say, “Go ahead,
look. This is natural, we do this, and it’s okay
to look at it.” However, there are ways to watch
something because watching is participating,
and you will affect the thing you are watching
by the energy with which you are watching it”

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“Play parties are important because they take
sex out of isolation and they say, “Go ahead,
look. This is natural, we do this, and it’s okay
to look at it.” However, there are ways to watch
something because watching is participating,
and you will affect the thing you are watching
by the energy with which you are watching it”

Questioning Sexual Identity with Rae McDaniel

“Labels are only useful when we apply them to ourselves, including with sexual orientation — there is no pressure to label a sexual orientation differently simply because you or your partner has transitioned into a different gender identity.”



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Today on That Sex Chick:

  • What it means to be cisgender, nonbinary, & transgender

  • The difference between gender and sexuality

  • Rae’s decision to get top surgery

  • Allowing children to engage with gender in an intentional way

  • Addressing frustration between cis people, nonbinary, & trans people

  • Using ‘they’ as a singular pronoun

  • How to get curious & deepen your sense of self


Rae McDaniel is a nonbinary sex therapist-turned-coach who works with transgender, nonbinary, and gender-questioning individuals feeling lost while transitioning their gender identity. Today’s conversation is unlike any we’ve had on the show and provides a beautiful insight into gender, sexuality, and evolving into the most authentic expression of you.

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