Lila Donnolo x Ep. 74

“Play parties are important because they take
sex out of isolation and they say, “Go ahead,
look. This is natural, we do this, and it’s okay
to look at it.” However, there are ways to watch
something because watching is participating,
and you will affect the thing you are watching
by the energy with which you are watching it”

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“Play parties are important because they take
sex out of isolation and they say, “Go ahead,
look. This is natural, we do this, and it’s okay
to look at it.” However, there are ways to watch
something because watching is participating,
and you will affect the thing you are watching
by the energy with which you are watching it”

Sex Parties Explained with Lila Donnolo

“Make agreements around your intentions, desires, and boundaries, and don’t change them during the party. There will always be another party. It can cause so much grief and pain in your relationship, and in your relationship to yourself if you’re going solo, if you violate your own boundaries or your partner violates your boundaries.”



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Today on That Sex Chick:

  • What to expect at a sex play party

  • Lila’s “FBID” exercise to prepare for a play party

  • How to physically prepare your body and your tool kit

  • How to give consent and gracefully receive a rejection

  • Play party etiquette, safer sex talk, and hygiene 

  • How to reframe your jealousy into arousal

  • Play party best practices 


Curious about sex play parties? Lila Donnolo is on the show to unpack everything you need to know before attending or hosting one! She breaks down what to expect at a play party, how to physically and emotionally prepare, play party etiquette and safer sex talk, and all the best practices along with red flags to look out for. This is a juicy, illuminating, and dynamic conversation that will expand your mind to what’s possible in a sex-positive culture.

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