Jordan Bowditch x Ep 28

“Play parties are important because they take
sex out of isolation and they say, “Go ahead,
look. This is natural, we do this, and it’s okay
to look at it.” However, there are ways to watch
something because watching is participating,
and you will affect the thing you are watching
by the energy with which you are watching it”

“Play parties are important because they take
sex out of isolation and they say, “Go ahead,
look. This is natural, we do this, and it’s okay
to look at it.” However, there are ways to watch
something because watching is participating,
and you will affect the thing you are watching
by the energy with which you are watching it”

How Men’s Work Improved My Sex Life with Jordan Bowditch

“My sexual development journey started with the pure awareness of sex being a personal development practice, and then treating it as such. BDSM, tantra, and surrounding ourselves with sexual influence like erotic novels—I get so much inspiration and ideas from those.”

Today on That Sex Chick:

  • What it means for a man to do “the work”

  • How masculinity & fatherhood was modeled to Jordan

  • How initiation and rites of passage influenced Jordan’s journey

  • The fears and resistance to investing in retreats

  • Bioenergetics & body psychotherapy for releasing trauma

  • Sex as a personal development practice

  • How Jordan’s developed his personal brand of men’s work


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Today, Alexa and Jordan crack open Jordan’s journey into men’s work. Jordan rewinds to childhood, unpacking how masculinity was modeled to him in the form of abandonment and calling as a replacement for presence.

He shares how he initially viewed the personal development world as constricting due to growing up in a culture that made being overly authentic and vulnerable a weakness.

You’ll hear how his fraternity and post-college experience led him into the realm of men’s work, and how sexual development is an integral part of his personal development practice.

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