Jessica Fern x Ep. 37

“Play parties are important because they take
sex out of isolation and they say, “Go ahead,
look. This is natural, we do this, and it’s okay
to look at it.” However, there are ways to watch
something because watching is participating,
and you will affect the thing you are watching
by the energy with which you are watching it”

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“Play parties are important because they take
sex out of isolation and they say, “Go ahead,
look. This is natural, we do this, and it’s okay
to look at it.” However, there are ways to watch
something because watching is participating,
and you will affect the thing you are watching
by the energy with which you are watching it”

Polyamory, Attachment Styles, and Trauma Healing with Jessica Fern

“So many people think, “You want to be non-monogamous because I’m not enough for you.” But it can be both—you can feel like you have one or two of your perfect matches and still want variety, exploration, and multiple partners.”



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Today on That Sex Chick:

  • The different types of consensual nonmonogamy 

  • Getting clear on the ‘why’ behind your desire for nonmonogamy

  • Challenges that can arise in sexual vs. emotional nonexclusivity

  • How your attachment style affects sex and relationships

  • Why healing trauma benefits relationships and society


Polyamorous psychotherapist Jessica Fern is on the show to talk about consensual nonmonogamy and doing relationships in a nontraditional way.

This conversation invites you to reflect on the intentionality in your relationships, and if you’re wanting to dabble in being open, understanding the ‘why’ behind it.

Jessica also talks about attachment theory, exploring how our emotional experiences and wounding shows up in sex and relationships.

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