Dr. Lexx x Ep 27

“Play parties are important because they take
sex out of isolation and they say, “Go ahead,
look. This is natural, we do this, and it’s okay
to look at it.” However, there are ways to watch
something because watching is participating,
and you will affect the thing you are watching
by the energy with which you are watching it”

“Play parties are important because they take
sex out of isolation and they say, “Go ahead,
look. This is natural, we do this, and it’s okay
to look at it.” However, there are ways to watch
something because watching is participating,
and you will affect the thing you are watching
by the energy with which you are watching it”

Black Sexuality + Dismantling Shame with Dr. Lexx James

“Do you look at conflict in your relationship as a threat or an opportunity? The goal is that even in the hard sh*t, you look at it as an opportunity.”

Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Therapy stigmas for POC & common challenges

  • Navigating shame to experience pleasure

  • Viewing conflict as an opportunity vs. threat

  • Leaning into intimacy by communicating vulnerably

  • Healing obstacles for sexual liberation


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Dr. Lexx James is a certified sex educator and therapist, and author of the children’s book, “These are My Eyes, This is My Nose, This is My Vulva, These are My Toes”.

In today’s conversation, Dr. Lexx shares how she helps clients heal sexual shame and relationship conflict to build and maintain long-lasting intimacy.

Dr. Lexx also shines light on the therapy stigmas POC face and the common challenges she helps individuals work through. This heart-felt show will help you lean into vulnerability and intimacy with yourself and partner!

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