Chris Marhefka x Ep. 51

“Play parties are important because they take
sex out of isolation and they say, “Go ahead,
look. This is natural, we do this, and it’s okay
to look at it.” However, there are ways to watch
something because watching is participating,
and you will affect the thing you are watching
by the energy with which you are watching it”

“Play parties are important because they take
sex out of isolation and they say, “Go ahead,
look. This is natural, we do this, and it’s okay
to look at it.” However, there are ways to watch
something because watching is participating,
and you will affect the thing you are watching
by the energy with which you are watching it”

Divorce Deep Dive: Codependency, Psychedelics, and Uncoupling with Love with Bryn Daylor & Chris Marhefka

“Sometimes what keeps people from communicating is hoping the other person will go first, and if that’s there for you, you can be the one to change the thing that you desire.”

Today on That Sex Chick:

  • The start of Bryn & Chris’ relationship & what caused the breakdown

  • Chris’ sexual beginning: lack of sex talks, porn, and being under the influence

  • New relationship energy & wild sex leading to avoidance and resentment

  • How creating space leads to desire

  • How they evolved by hiring sex coaches after separating

  • Tips for approaching tough conversations with your partner


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Today, Bryn and her ex-husband Chris Marhefka take us behind the scenes of what their 10 year relationship looked like where sex wasn’t working and how they each stepped into their best sexual selves on the other side of it. They talk about the spicy energy and wild sex of new relationships, and how the lack of intention and communication led to avoidance, playing a role in their divorce. Bryn and Chris share how individually hiring sex coaches after separating helped them heal limiting beliefs, take personal responsibility, strengthen communication, and now have deeply fulfilling sex lives.

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