Bryn Marhefka x Ep 41

“Play parties are important because they take
sex out of isolation and they say, “Go ahead,
look. This is natural, we do this, and it’s okay
to look at it.” However, there are ways to watch
something because watching is participating,
and you will affect the thing you are watching
by the energy with which you are watching it”

“Play parties are important because they take
sex out of isolation and they say, “Go ahead,
look. This is natural, we do this, and it’s okay
to look at it.” However, there are ways to watch
something because watching is participating,
and you will affect the thing you are watching
by the energy with which you are watching it”

Threesomes, Dating Apps, & Knowing Your Desires with Bryn Marhefka

“Sex is one of the pillars of who I am as a human being, and to deny that pillar and that part of myself would be to deny myself as a sexual, open, independent, confident woman. So now when dating, we talk about sex relatively quickly.”

Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Post divorce: how Bryn knew she was ready to date

  • Dating, profiles, and the culture of Hinge and Feeld

  • Navigating a conscious threesome on Feeld

  • Limiting beliefs around intimacy Bryn’s had to unpack

  • How to lead with the conversation of sex when dating

  • What sexual development has looked like for Bryn

  • Radiating your authenticity for attracting a partner(s)


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 Today, Alexa and Bryn dive into the conversation on dating and sex.

Bryn shares her first hand, real experience of her dating life—like how she knew she was ready to date post divorce, being intentional on dating apps, and how she leads with the conversation of sex to avoid disappointment.

The ladies unpack why it’s important to reflect on what did and didn’t work in past relationships, and how to get clear on what you desire in your next partner or hookup.

At the end, Bryn shares her juicy threesome experience with a married couple!

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