Pamela Madsen x Ep 24

“Play parties are important because they take
sex out of isolation and they say, “Go ahead,
look. This is natural, we do this, and it’s okay
to look at it.” However, there are ways to watch
something because watching is participating,
and you will affect the thing you are watching
by the energy with which you are watching it”

“Play parties are important because they take
sex out of isolation and they say, “Go ahead,
look. This is natural, we do this, and it’s okay
to look at it.” However, there are ways to watch
something because watching is participating,
and you will affect the thing you are watching
by the energy with which you are watching it”

Sexological Bodywork: Connect to Your Vulva with Pamela Madsen

“If you’re not connected to your vulva, it’s really hard to be connected to your whole body—it’s what runs your energy.”

Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Touch as the cure for our stress response

  • Orgasm headaches & the power of the pussy

  • How infertility led Pamela to be an activist for women

  • Increasing your genital self-confidence

  • Exploring intimacy & arousal with a practitioner 

  • Body image: inviting your inner critic to the party

  • Sex, aging, & staying erotic your whole life


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Pamela Madsen is a certified somatic sex educator, founder of the American Fertility Association, and author of Shameless: How I Ditched the Diet, Got Naked, Found True Pleasure…and Somehow Got Home in Time To Cook Dinner.

This conversation is all about getting in touch with your body and how your power is in your pussy. By creating a relationship with your vulva, you become more embodied, and this will reflect in every aspect of your life.

Pamela unpacks the experience of working with a sexological bodyworker and the benefits of exploring arousal and intimacy with purpose. Pamela and Alexa also talk about infertility, body image, and staying erotic no matter your age.

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This show is produced by Soulfire Productions